Thursday’s Thoughts
Happenings here at home, deep theological questions, simple thoughts on what God has been teaching me, book reviews, perhaps even the rare political post. (gasp)
Wordless Wednesdays
Journey along with me as I learn more about photography in general and how to use my wonderful new DSLR camera in particular.
Homemade Lewis Isle Chess Set
February 22nd, 2012
admin How to Write a Song
February 20th, 2012
admin Song writing has become one of the greatest joys in my life. It’s an incredible feeling when you see someone’s heart touched by the inspiration you received, regardless of whether you think your writing is up to the level of what you might hear on the Christian radio station or whether your recording ability is able to bring out the best in your work. That’s why I love to encourage other beginning songwriters to keep writing even if their writing is weak at present. I don’t want to place myself on some pedestal as if I’ve figured it all out. Not hardly! I only wish to share what I’ve learned so far and some wonderful resources for songwriters.
I think the main thing, the first thing, is inspiration. This isn’t some magical thing or a skill to be acheived or something that only really spiritual people can do. One of my favorite songwriters, Dennis Jernigan, calls himself a “song receiver” rather than a song writer. God is the source, not ourselves. There’s always a thrill in my soul though, when an idea for a song comes, and I know it’s from the Lord. I have never been able to sit down and *decide* to write a song – not a good one anyway. That song seed may come while reading in God’s word, or listening to a friend in need, or hearing a sermon, or seeing a beautiful sunrise, but it’s that idea, that seed of a song. Sometimes songwriters call it a “hook”. Often, I’ll have a picture in my head and a phrase that begins to describe that picture and the emotions wrapped up in it. Usually, that phrase has a melody or suggests a melody. One article on songwriting that I read, suggested speaking the lyrics you’d written aloud and hearing the music already in them, the highs and lows of the voice that are naturally there. I think it’s a lot like that, though it might happen without those actual thoughts.
Once I have that seed or hook, most of the song usually comes quickly after that. There might be a little struggling with the words in the second verse, pulling them into the rhythm pattern that I’ve laid down in the first, but usually, it’s all there, in that picture, and I’m just trying to describe what that picture means to me. When it’s right, it makes me cry. That sounds a bit silly, but it’s true. It’s kind of like when you hear someone else giving utterance to what you’ve held in your soul but couldn’t quite articulate. That’s what it feels like.
Most of the time, the melody and at least a vague impression of the acompaniment is all together by that point and I just have to work through getting down on paper what I hear in my head, musically. But sometimes, such as with “Watching the Sky” as I mentioned in my earlier post, I am stuck and need a bit of help. I am so thankful to have other songwriter friends and relatives to call upon. It can be a bit scary to share an unfinished song with someone else. They might laugh at your wording in your bridge when you thought it was especially poignant. (Love, you, Cheri!) But, as you hear their constructive criticism, and take it into account, whether or not you take their advice and change anything, your song will be stronger for it.
There is generally a structure to songs – verse, chorus, verse, chorus, bridge, chorus – and usually a meter and rhyme pattern that you keep throughout the song, but don’t be afraid to let the song lead the way and sometimes even break those rules. This is one thing I’ve seen often in the work of a beginning songwriter – a forced-ness, especially in strictness of rhymes, that leaves the song feeling sterile and without emotion or meaning.
For instance, I could write a song about being a mom of a two year old little boy whom I love, but who wears me down. LOL It could go something like this:
I have a two year old little boy.
I can’t really say he’s my pride and joy.
But God is using him to grow
His image in me, this I know…
gag. blech. yuck. LOL Do you see what I mean? It’s sterile, stilted, forced – words shoved into a certain number of syllables per line with a trite little rhyme at the end. There’s no emotion, no vision, no anything.
Now, what if we go at it from another point of view. Let’s get the picture clear in our minds. I can imagine that mother, exhausted at the end of the day, even in tears, as she looks at her little boy asleep in his bed, deceptively sweet and quiet HA! – completely overwhelmed at what being his mother means, begging God for just a few hours of good sleep before her little dynamo is up and running again, while at the same time, loving him so very much and clinging to God for His strength and wisdom. You can feel what she feels, imagine what she’s thinking. The chorus of that song might go something like this…
Lord, help me be all that he needs from me,
A gentle mom who kisses scraped up knees,
Yet strong to teach him right from wrong and to live what he believes,
Even when there’s no more energy…
Lord, help me be all that he needs from me.
It’s not perfect. I’d probably need to do some tweaking. Cheri might laugh at the scraped up knees line.
But it does a better job at capturing what that mom is feeling. Looking at that chorus, I could see how each verse could then grow with that little boy, the first one being him at two years old. Maybe a second one at seven when he’s so full of anger and his mom has to hold him still and whisper God’s word into his ear while he fights and yells. Maybe a third verse when he’s seventeen and nearly a man and her worry as he makes his way into the world a little more. I think in the bridge, I’d bring in that verse in Isaiah that I love that talks about how God will be my children’s teacher. Now that’s a song that just might have a little bit of potential to be a powerful song – one that connects with a lot of people. I’ve already got melody and some accompaniment in my head, even.
You can see that I broke some of those rules. Three verses rather than two, and then there’s the rhyming. I used me, knees, and believe as rhymes even though they technically aren’t. But those near rhymes give it a less stilted feel and they work.
So, how’s that for a Musical Monday and Tutorial Tuesday all in one? Have you ever wondered how songwriters write a song? Do you write songs? I’d love to hear them if you do!
To finish up, here are just a few places on the web that I’ve found especially helpful and inspiring in my songwriting. I hope they’ll be of help to you too.
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Tips for Song Receivers
How to Write a Song HQ
Christian Songwriters’ Network
Finishing Up The Giveaway Week
February 17th, 2012
admin Since Thursday was another bust – no one left a comment – (Not even the crazy spammers, go figure!) We’re left with Friday’s marshmallows. I must admit, I was having a hard time deciding what to do. Two people left a comment to be entered into the drawing. One of them already won something this week. So, would it be right to rig the drawing and just choose the person who hadn’t already won something else? Finally, I decided just to give a package of marshmallows to each. My son, Micha was ok with that idea too.
So, Dana Sweeney and Tanya Swartzentruber, congratulations! I already have Tanya’s address, but Dana, if you could email me at heidi@daddys-little-princess.com I’d really appreciate it.
As of right now, no one has signed up to win tomorrow’s book either, so this is it. The end for this week. I think I’ve learned that I need to work on gaining a few more blog followers before trying this again.
And here’s a quick update from the Tutorial Tuesday a few weeks ago! Mason Jar Chandelier
My wonderful husband got it wired for me this past weekend. I LOVE how it turned out!
Just a quick post
February 16th, 2012
admin Happy Valentine’s Day! and congratulations to our winner :)
February 14th, 2012
admin Well, my week of giveaways was almost a total fail, but for the few who did post, I am so very thankful!
So, congratulations on this tutorial Tuesday to Susie Bee. You win the custom quiet book for your kiddies.
Email me, and we’ll talk details, ok?
For everyone else, have a wonderful valentine’s day. I’m off to make a special supper of shrimp fetuccine alfredo and baked brie with cranberry before my sweetie gets home.
Marshmallow Friday
February 11th, 2012
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When you think of a marshmallow, probably what comes to mind are the insipid white cylinders you can buy by the bagful at the grocery store. They’re wonderful toasted in a campfire or being the glue in a chocolate rice krispie bar with chocolate-peanut butter topping. (Mmmmm!) But just to pull one out and eat it raw? Not so much.
But if you’ve never had a homemade gourmet marshmallow, you are seriously missing out! My oldest son has been making marshmallows for the last few years.
Cinnamon marshmallows.
Lemon marshmallows dipped in the darkest chocolate.
Maple marshmallows.
Orange dreamscicle marshmallows.
Coconut marshmallows.
Chocolate hazlenut marshmallows.
Chocolate covered mint marshmallows.
So good!
Finally, just recently, he’s found an opportunity to rent a commercial kitchen so he can start making his marshmallows to sell.
So, for today’s giveaway, I’m pleased to offer a free package of Kaether Konfections gourmet marshmallows in your choice of cinnamon or chocolate covered mint!
1. Comment here and include your choice as to which marshmallow flavor you’d like.
2. Be willing to share your name and address with me if you win.
That’s all!
Thoughts on Thankfulness – Book Reviews
February 10th, 2012
admin Thankfulness.
Eucharisteo.
A word that has shaped the last couple years of my life. I’ve often marveled at the way God will orchestrate events to reinforce what He is teaching me, book after book, conversation after conversation. I love the way He does that!
In the months after our daughter, Savannah died, I would run errands all by myself whenever I could so that I could cry without bothering anyone. I would listen to the radio and pray and pray and cry out to the Lord. Often, I’d time my errands so that I could listen to Nancy Leigh DeMoss’s program “Revive Our Hearts”. She did a series on thankfulness that really spoke to me where I was. I wanted to get her book about it, but wasn’t able to at that time.
Fast forward to about a year ago – Ann Voskamp’s lovely book, “One Thousand Gifts” came out and I devoured it without coming up for air until it was finished. Her writing is so poetic, so full of emotion. I cried as I read about her sister’s death, as I ran with her under the intoxicating moon, as she struggled with how to teach her sons what God was teaching her, as she discovered God’s role not only as Father, teacher, friend… but even as husband. I wanted to share her book with everyone I knew. Mostly, I wanted that kind of thankful worshipful faith life.
I started writing down my thanks – what Ann calls a gift list – all the gifts God was giving me. Remembering them. Hanging onto them.
1. Sweet lavender scented baby neck fresh from the bath and ready for nuzzling.
2. Heavy chocolate floating on the breeze inexorably filling every corner of the house with anticipation of brownies.
3. Four year old not even upset at the fact that she can’t join the biggers in sledding because she got to make said brownies!
4. Sun shining through the window making a square on the floor that you can stand in and feel the warm soaking up into your toes.
5. bolts and piles of paisely, plaid, florals, wool and cotton, just waiting to be made into beautiful things.
6. Relaxing into the harmonic intervals as my children sing hyms in four part harmony around the dining room table.
7. Precious things – a cup, a locket, a chest – full of memories, of history, of lives lived and the love in them.
8. Groaning, aching in prayer for dear friends and family in pain and in need, cooperating in some small way in God’s plan for thier lives.
9.Saints who have gone before, telling, speaking, writing, teaching,reaching back a hand to help those who come after find the way.
10. Sleepy milk-drunk sighs.
11. Hot water pouring down, washing away the dirt and loosening the muscles – like God’s grace-rain, not only washing the outside, but also loosening up the faith muscles on the inside.
12. New blanket of snow so bright and clean, every branch and bough with it’s own little bit of fluff.
13. Surgeons who know how to cut away the bad so that the good can heal, both the physical and the spiritual ones.
14. Big brothers, nearly grown, still willing to play with their four year old little sister with her “plastic toys”.
15. Black stone enscribed with name, always close right outside the window, constant comforting reminder of resurrection glory.
16. Reading God’s Word ’round the table, each in turn, on Sunday morning.
17. Pantry shelves laden with jars in jeweled colors canned in Gramma’s kettle.
18. Tiny ridge of white on little pink gum.
19. More snow keeping us home for a quiet relaxed homeschooling day.
20. Little pot belly pumping out heat, room warm and cozy, little one on lap with a book to share.
21. The servants – washing machine, dryer, crock pot, working busily away to keep the house on track.
Lovely, lovely gifts from God.
And then, after about a year for that message of thankfulness to seep into my heart and become somewhat a part of who I am, a friend let me borrow Nancy Leigh DeMoss’s book “Choosing Gratitude” too.
It is a very different book from Ann’s in style, but very similar in message. I loved it too. I really loved how she included a 30 series of devotions that helped make the lesson more tangible. God was bringing me a little farther, a little deeper – taking me from the high of emotion in “One Thousand Gifts” and grounding me in studying it out in His word through “Choosing Gratitude”.
61. A little girl’s excitement as she figures out how to spell her brother’s name all by herself.
62. More grass reaching for sky
Even though the snow will most likely return and cover it again, it never stops reaching.
63. Birds at the feeder twittering happily
64. Sun on honey mustard walls filling the room with warmth
65. Sepia toned photograph of my father as a young boy, and trying to decide which of my children look most like him
66. The clink of ice in a glass of water
67. Mysteriously beautiful fog constantly shifting and changing
68. Children’s enjoyment of puddles
69. Bag of potatoes from one of our neighbors waiting by the door when we got home today
70: sky of easter egg blue peeking between clouds
71. Friendly post office lady – always a joy.
72. Big round bales of hay in a rown in the fields, each with its fluffy white hat
73. Slippery clay growing and changing like a living thing within my hands, becoming the thing I planned it to be.
74. Mastering Gramma’s rolls
75. Wil’s love for and excitement to see his “Jub Jub” (Jeremi)
God is so good, so very good to me! Lord make thankfulness the default setting of my life!


For the giveaway today, I’d like to gift you with your choice of these two books. (Even if you already own both, chances are you’d like the opportunity to share one with someone you love.) I will order it from Amazon and have it shipped directly to you.
Please…
1. Share this blog with someone else.
2. Comment here and tell me which book you’d prefer and something God has gifted you with that you are thankful for.
3. Be willing to share your name and address if your name is drawn.
I’ll draw names for the book giveaway next Thursday, Feb. 16th. You can add your comments here up until any time on Wednesday. (The same is true for any of the prior posts – you can comment to be included in the drawing up until the day before I draw names.)
Also, just a reminder… The Daddy’s Little Princess gift certificate drawing will be Sunday, Feb. 12th – just a few days away. If you have daughters or granddaughters, or neices, or friends with little girls, be sure to check out my Daddy’s Little Princess fan page on facebook. “Like” our page, and leave a comment to be included in the drawing Sunday Feb 12 for a $50 gift certificate to Daddy’s Little Princess
and tell me your favorite thing on the DLP website to get an extra chance.
Wednesday – Almost Wordless
February 8th, 2012
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Can’t quite be wordless since you need the rules. LOL
You can choose between a camera strap cover similar to the one shown above or a little shoulder bag just the right size for your point and shoot camera if you don’t have a DSLR.
1. comment and tell me your favorite color and the kind of camera you use
2. be willing to share your name and address if you win
p.s. I apologize that I *still* have not gotten my pictures and tutorial up for yesterday’s post. My computer is acting stupid. LOL













